Asking

One of the things I have learned from working with men, is their ability to ask for and get what they want.

I have always found that to be pushy, but aren't they? If you watch "The Donald" he seems really pushy. I don't watch his reality TV Show, but I have heard about him enough to see that pushy side to him. Before the TV Show there was the book "The Art of the Deal", by Donald Trump. We

Part of being a "good girl" is not being pushy or demanding. As I get older, I am not worried about being a "good girl" I am more worried about not getting what I want and deserve at this age.

The key to this, is asking for it. Asking for the chance to perform, then following through and doing a good job. I have always done a good job. I have not always drawn people's attention to it. While it may seem simple to a man, this seems to be in direct conflict with how I was raised. It takes a lot for me to stand up and show off and self-promote. If I don't, I know I won't get anywhere. Yes, I have to ask people to read my blog, my 1st chapter of my book and ask if they will come to my performance. Usually the answer is Yes.